The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder – where to start and where to end!!. its all here you just need to go out and do it!!!!

1. Eye Contact and Initial Conversation
Eye contact is the first step. It’s use shows social awareness and always
improves your chances of starting a conversation. Start your conversational
game shortly after eye contact.
2. Incidental Class 1
The first class of incidental kino involves the arms and hands. Shaking
hands, tapping people on the shoulder and brushing arms are all very
common things that we do on a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner,
i.e. occurring merely by chance or without intention or calculation, it is extremely
effective at building initial comfort.

1. Eye Contact and Initial Conversation

Eye contact is the first step. It’s use shows social awareness and always

improves your chances of starting a conversation. Start your conversational

game shortly after eye contact.

2. Incidental Class 1

The first class of incidental kino involves the arms and hands. Shaking

hands, tapping people on the shoulder and brushing arms are all very

common things that we do on a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner,

i.e. occurring merely by chance or without intention or calculation, it is extremely

effective at building initial comfort.

Incidental Class 1 Examples:

• Hand shaking

• Arm brushing

• Light touching on her arm to emphasize your points

• Anchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you talk

• Standing next to her with your arm touching hers

• High Fives

• Palm Reading

3. Overt Class 1

There is an unmistakable recurring pattern throughout the DEL: incidental

kino, followed by overt kino. Overt means open to view or knowledge;

not concealed or secret.

While incidental kino is usually done in a context which masks your

intention, overt kino is not. The incidental kino which precedes it creates

the familiarity necessary for the overt kino to be accepted.

Overt Class 1 Examples:

• Holding hands

• Arm in arm escorting

4. Incidental Class 2

Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place on her torso or

legs. This is slightly more intimate than class 1, but does not include erogenous

zones such as her breasts, crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not

paid any direct attention until the escalation ramp – to be defined later.

Incidental Class 2 Examples:

• Standing very close with your legs touching hers

• Sitting close together with your legs touching hers

• Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with your hands

while talking

• Briefly touching her back with your palm while speaking as if you are

pulling her in to hear you better

5. Overt Class 2

Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. It’s not necessary,

but definitely a smart place to make the transition to sitting down.

This class of kino should be done in a protective, almost romantic manner.

Overt Class 2 Examples:

• Frontal Hugging (done best as a positive reaction to her compliance)

• Escorting her through the bar with your hand on her lower back

• Sitting next to her and placing her leg over yours

• Holding her abdomen on the side while sitting down and talking

• Placing her hand on your thigh

6. Incidental Class 3

Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in class 3. Many

guys make the common mistake of touching these areas too soon, with a

girl they first met.

Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face and neck placing

these relatively high on the ladder. Another common mistake is that more

experienced guys will generally skip this step altogether, only to face last

minute resistance later on.

Incidental Class 3 Examples:

• Brushing (or pretending to brush) something off of her face

• Talking very closely with your face touching hers because the environment

is extremely loud

• Touching an interesting necklace she’s wearing, meanwhile allowing

your fingers to lightly caress her neck

• Playfully pinching her cheeks

7. Overt Class 3

The manner in which kino is delivered in overt class 3, is very direct.

It is meant to prepare her for kissing, and is done in a very slow, gentle

and romantic way.

Most of the time you should be sitting down, relaxed and maintaining

a good sexual state and strong eye contact.

Overt Class 3 Examples:

• Placing her head to rest on your shoulder

• Moving your face into her neck and smelling her

• Lightly stroking her face with your finger, close in, looking into her

eyes

• Running your fingers through her hair, close in, looking into her eyes

• Holding her behind the neck with your palm to the side of her neck,

looking into her eyes

Escalation Ramp

While the above steps from 1-7 may take anywhere from 30 minutes

to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described on the following pages is very

rapid. The duration of the ramp should be about 5 – 15 minutes. Start the

ramp very quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location.

8. Kissing

Start kissing from a very close proximity. Don’t come diving in lips

first from three feet away. Ideally you should already be in a suitable position

for kissing before you try. If you have overt class 3 kino taken care of,

you’re probably in the right spot.

A technique for building sexual tension – move closely in, slowly as if

you might kiss her, and then move away and start talking about something

else. This will build the tension and she will wonder when you’re going to

actually kiss her.

A technique to initiate kissing – try placing your finger just underneath

her chin and pulling her mouth towards yours.

Kissing should be light and short at first. You should be the one to

pull away first. Don’t use too much tongue at first, just use it to tease her,

and build anticipation.

9. Kissing Her Neck

Once you have kissed her for a bit, move down to her neck. Kiss it

gently, while holding her close to you.

Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel free to throw in

some gentle biting too.

10. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back

Once you have established kissing both on her mouth and neck,

move your hands to her waist and underneath her shirt. Continue to hold

her close to you, now with your hands directly on her back.

11. Stomach to Stomach

Now that you have established touching her skin, below her shirt,

simply move your hand to the front, and lift her shirt, exposing only her

stomach. At the same time lift your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in

direct contact with hers.

It seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense sexual feelings

inside of her. The only time she feels contact like that is usually when she’s

naked and having sex.

12. Kissing her Body

Having her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of moving downwards

to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her abdomen. Start kissing her

there, along the sides, and move upwards.

Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not necessary, and

in some cases can be detrimental to your progress. There are some women

who have a negative anchor to their breasts.

13 to 16 still to come…

Enjoy.


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